Availability of chance and situational influences

Having a chance of cheating is a big factor to cheat on. Of course, every partner who gets a chance will not cheat but still, it is a leading cause of infidelity in relationships. Consider for a while you are angry with your partner and going through a state of depression. In this case, a person comes and says I like you and I care a lot about your health. Let’s come with me and spend some time. Now in this scenario, you may not be cheated but all contributing factors will lead to infidelity. Many factors collectively create a situation of cheating.

Various unmet desires

Being living in an advanced world there are a lot of needs that must be fulfilled. due to several causes if your partner cannot fulfil all his promises and cannot meet your wishes it also creates tension between you two. Ultimately all unmet desires lead to infidelity. Many people stay in a specific relationship thinking that their desires will be fulfilled and their lifestyle will be improved up to an exceptional level. When all dreams do not turn into reality it leads to anger, sadness, and frustration. These symptoms go on worst if the situation does not get well. The following factors exaggerate the situation and end with infidelity ultimately.

• Your mate has different-sex partners
• One of the partners is not interested in having sex
• Both mates do not spend much time with each other
• An unmet emotional desire also causes a partner to cheat
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• Low confidence and self-esteem

  A desire to increase self-esteem and confidence is also a motivating factor for cheating in a relationship. Having sex is a basic necessity of an individual but if makes sexual relation with a new person it makes you more confident and increases your esteem by making you more empowered. A lot of people cheated because they cannot get satisfaction from their partner and get all desires fulfilled by someone else.

  Lack of effective communication

  To live a happy life full of joy and happiness an effective communication is essential between two mates. If you will not communicate well with your partner and are not giving enough time to him or her, it will create many hurdles and difficulties in your relationship. When people do not share their secrets and feelings with their mate it takes them towards a new relation. Although it may not lead to a new physical relation still it can open the door to emotional cheating.so if you are suffering from such a situation then it is high time to consult a marriage counsellor now to make your married life successful.

   A Strong Feeling of one-sided relation

  One of the most common causes of infidelity is a feeling of one-sided relation. One partner always thinks that he or she is facing a situation of one-sided relation;this feeling becomes strongest with time and put the person into a permanent state of sadness and deprivation. If your mate is suffering from such a situation he or she may find a new one to meet all emotional and sexual desires. Sided relation is another contributing factor in divorce and separation that starts with infidelity and ends with permanent distance in the relationship.

• Search for a variety

  If we talk about variety concerning the relationship it always relates to sex. Think for a while if your partner is not getting enough sexual desires and remain in search of other sex partner and experience variety in him or her it also causes him to cheat you openly. The other means of variety may be

  • Various activities other than sexual activity
  • Strong attraction to other persons
  • A variety in commutation style

  The attraction is a strong feeling that pulls you towards new people without considering the fact you are in a relationship with your mate. Different people have different psyches but it attracts towards others is common to all. Another reason for infidelity is an attraction to other individuals.

  No love any more

  Love, at first sight, is not successful always. Falling in love with someone usually does not last for a lifetime. When you attract to a person for the first time, you experience all other happiness, excitement, and passion while meeting or talking to him. But the reality is these feelings faded away with time. Satisfaction in love may lead to cheating because people want to experience new love again.

  So what to do if your mate cheated on you?

  If your mate cheated on you and you do not know how to cope with this situation, go ahead by acting upon the following tips

  • Ask your mate about what has happened. Discussion is important to know about the motives of infidelity
  • Talk with your mate and ask if you want to continue the relationship anymore or not? Because many individual cheats to get out of the existing relation
  • Check yourself and ask if you believe in your mate or want to trust him or her again to continue the relation

  No doubt this situation is frustrating and difficult to handle after doing all the above-discussed points now it’s high time to consult a counsellor. There are many marriage counsellors to save your relation. You can avail the chance of counselling after experiencing cheating from your partner to overcome the feeling of sadness, depression, and emotional hurt.

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• Final thoughts

  Once a cheater always a cheater is a famous phrase is used or the individual who are not reliable and are dishonest. So to remain in your loyal relation it is vital to communicate well with one another and sharing of emotional feelings in a positive way.in other words, there are a lot of causes of infidelity in a complicated relation of marriage. But the good thing is it can be overcome by expressing the feeling of love and care and practicing forgiveness and by creating a sense of strong commitment with your mate in all situations. Stay safe stay protected. Good luck.